Thursday, April 24, 2008
Thankful Thursday
1. I am thankful that we are 2 days away from the wedding and all our planning and work is soon to be a reality. So excited!
2. I'm thankful I don't have a hangover today since I drank many cervezas last night. We ended up having a houseful of people and it was a lot of fun. I am thankful for having good, fun friends and family and soon-to-be family.
3. I'm thankful my girl Bean is on her way up today. I know I mentioned it yesterday, but I'm excited and I'm thankful and this is my blog so I can repeat myself if I want to. (I can also cry if I want to, but not today :-)
4. I'm thankful it's beautiful weather today. It may or may not be beautiful on Saturday, but I'm also thankful I'm not obsessing about it. They say it's good luck if there's some rain on your wedding day. I don't know any brides who think that, but whatever.
5. I'm thankful that I finally got Rosie O'Donnell to answer me on her blog! Beyond exciting. Check it out. Her link is on the right. Go under "Ask Rosie" and scroll down to the posts she answered last night. I am MelissaM and I am keeping her informed of our countdown too. She finally gave me a shout out and wished us a happy wedding!!! It's very exciting to see your name on a celebrity's blog even if it's not your whole name and no one else knows it's you.
Things will probably be getting crazy here the next 2 days so I don't know when or if I will post again before the wedding. I'll try to do at least a short one, but no promises.
Wednesday, April 23, 2008
Wedding Dress Wednesday
I really don't have much to do today which is why I thought I'd start drinking. I have to get some gifts together and work on some cards, but otherwise, I'm in good shape.
My Bean is coming up tomorrow. I can't WAIT for her to get here! I really can't believe the day after tomorrow will be the rehearsal where we're going to go over everything that's going to happen at the actual wedding. Unbelievable.
Tuesday, April 22, 2008
Terrific Tuesday
Speaking of haircuts, tonight I have to give Mr. his haircut and I think boy child needs one, too. Having men in your life who like to have their hair buzzed is a blessing since you can do it yourself. I'm thinking of buzzing mine after the wedding--just kidding, folks. Although it would be so much easier to take care of.
By the way, the Reds lost last night, big time. We had fun at the game, though. I picked up the programs yesterday and they look really good. We are hand-signing the backs of each of them so that's also another to-do tonight. Still haven't gotten our marriage license. The timing just didn't work out yesterday. Mr. had to work in Dayton today but hopefully he'll be back in time to get it today. Time is ticking away so there's no time to waste.
Monday, April 21, 2008
Matrimony Monday
Yesterday I got my hair colored to cover up all of the gray. I dropped off the programs at Staple's for scoring. Today I don't have a lot to do except pick up the programs--right on target and according to plan. One major thing we haven't done yet is get the marriage license. Just a small detail. I think we are going today. Tonight we are going to the Reds' game so that should be fun.
No pictures for you today. I haven't taken any pics in a few days. I've started stalking the weather for Saturday. It literally changes from day to day--sometimes it's going to rain, sometimes it's partly cloudy. I guess I will really start to pay attention about Wednesday.
Sunday, April 20, 2008
Serene Sunday
Got a lot done yesterday. The programs are done except I have to take them to Staples for scoring so we can fold them. The seating cards are done and alphabetized. The cupcake tree is finished. Life is good! I'm pretty much right on track for my scheduled peaceful week next week. Heard from the hair and the makeup girls and we're all confirmed on those. Like I said, Life is good!
Friday, April 18, 2008
Freaky Friday
The male child has found a house! It's his for the taking and he called the realtor late last night to accept the owner's counter offer, but never heard back from her. Right not it's about 11:15 in the morning and he's still not up. Ah, the luxuries of being a twentysomething! Anyway, I hope no one else has put a bid on it because if he loses this one, he may just 'lose' it. If he isn't up soon, I'm going to wake him up.
Boy child is driving in today. Mr. hasn't heard from him yet so he's probably sleeping in, too, although he is an hour behind out in Nebraska.
It's 8 days until our wedding day today. This time next week I will have gotten a massage and be getting ready to go with the girls for mani/pedi's at a salon near here. I'm starting to get really excited! I 'think' I got the seating chart done yesterday. You have NO idea how hard that is to do. I know I've complained about it on here before, but yesterday I was just about at my wit's end. I think I've got it settled, though. Today is program day. I've got to get those done and over to my mom so she can start printing them out. After that, just the ribbon on the cupcake tree and I should be done. Do you think it's weird that I think I'll be able to go to the Reds' game on Monday night on the week of my wedding? My mom gets free tickets through work and she's gotten us some. I think I should be able to go. I think my friends on the Knot may think I'm insane to think I could do that on the actual wedding week, but I think I will. I'll let you know.
It's beautiful weather here today. I was looking at the weather for next Saturday and it says it's going to be 65 and cloudy. Better than what it's been saying all week which was 60 percent chance of rain on that day. Of course, it's over a week away and that will probably change anyway. I won't start weather stalking seriously until Monday. Weather is one thing you can't control on your wedding day for sure!
I hope everyone has a great weekend!
Thursday, April 17, 2008
It's a known problem
Thankful Thursday already!
Yesterday was a productive day. I got more ribbon for the cupcake tree, picked up the best men gifts that Mr. had ordered and ran other, non wedding-related errands. I also worked last night.
Today is another busy day. The focus is getting the programs done, seating chart done and finishing the cupcake tree. Looks like I'm not working at all next week so that's great.
After I came home from running my errands yesterday, on my porch was a vase of flowers from my BFF and MOH, Bean. For those who aren't familiar with abbreviations, BFF is 'best friend forever' and MOH is 'maid of honor'. Here's a picture of the beautiful gerber daisies.

Aren't they beautiful? Those are also 2 wedding gifts we've received--the sugar bowl and creamer of one design of our china. Thanks so much, Bean. It was so thoughtful. Having Bean in my life is definitely always on my list of things I'm grateful for. I don't know how I would've made it through all of this wedding stuff without her. She is truly my sister friend in every way.
On the real life front, male child has put a bid on a house. It is absolutely adorable. It looks like they've rehabbed the entire house and everything is new in it. I am so excited for him and hope they accept his offer. It would be so exciting if the second male child--henceforth known as boy child--were able to see his brother's new house while he was in. I've already started making plans for a party at the house!! This house would be such a good fit for him so send the prayers up that he gets it.
I've added a new blog that I am starting to read. Look for the link on the right. It's a heartbreaking story about a woman with CF who received a double lung transplant after she had a severely premature baby. Her husband writes the blog and gives updates on both of his ladies. It's amazing what people go through and the strength with which they go through it. Yet another reason to be thankful for the health in my life and those who are dearest to me. So often we take our health for granted when in actuality, if you don't have your good health, you have so many struggles. Having good health and love in your life is really all you need.
I'm off for the day. Because it's thankful Thursday, be sure to take time to count your blessings today. We should all do this every day--but very few of us do--so starting with at least 1 day is a good way to ease into it.
Tuesday, April 15, 2008
Tacky Tuesday


Here's one with just the tall vase with the ribbon I've so meticulously glued on and no water in the vase.

I hope they'll look good. There will be more candles in small votive holders around the vases, too, which the reception place provides. It should look nice.




Monday, April 14, 2008
I think I know what the problem is
Medical Monday
Below is a picture of some of our accomplishments this weekend. The first 2 are pictures of the new blinds for the door to the deck.

I thought they look really good. Mr. had a difficult time hanging them to get the length just right off the floor. It's so nice to have them up. He's had them for just about the whole time he's lived here--5 or 6 years--and had never put them up. I like privacy because I know how nosey I am and I assume others are, too. You could see right into the house through that door without even straining for a look. Now we could walk around naked all day if we wanted to and no one would know--not that we'd do that, esp. with male child in the house, or even if he wasn't because that would be just wrong, but I'm just sayin' we could if we wanted to or got into that kind of thing.

After I saw the pink and green, I thought it would've been so cute if those were our colors. Anyway, I put the ribbon along the edges. As you can see, I'm not done yet. I've run out of ribbon. I just wanted to use 4 of the layers, but Mr. wants to use them all so I will have to go buy more ribbon. It's a shame, too, because I have enough for 1 of the 2 remaining layers. Not bad for someone who didn't measure a thing before she went to buy the ribbon. We will also have to get more cupcakes to fill the tree out so we will probably be eating cupcakes until our first anniversary. Of course, my cousin's son is coming to the wedding who happens to LOVE cake. I don't mean have one piece and really enjoy it. I mean have about 5 pieces and love the hell out of each of them. We're counting heavily on him liking the cupcakes.
Sunday, April 13, 2008
Saturated Sunday

Yesterday I printed up the little cards we're going to distribute to everyone who checks into the hotel about having brunch with us on Sunday after the wedding at another hotel down the road. I also started putting the ribbon around the cupcake tree. I still have to finish the seating chart. I think those are the only projects remaining, along with decorating the vases for the reception and the programs. Hopefully I can get all of that done this week since the second male child is coming home Friday. I imagine things will get hectic around here fast, esp. with it being just one week before the wedding. I'd like to have a nice relaxing last week. We'll see if that plan falls into place!
Mr. is hanging the blinds for the deck door. He's having a heckuva time getting them hung. It will be nice to have them done, though. We are going to my house to fix the basement steps permanently instead of the temporary solution we have now.
Not much else going on today. We had 2 showings of my house this weekend, but still no contracts. I think we're going to have to lower the price. Our realtor hasn't mentioned doing that, but it's been over a month and no real hits. I'm sure she'll suggest it soon.
Saturday, April 12, 2008
Sexy Saturday
I just got back from Mom's working on the wedding programs. We got the first draft done. I still have to finish the seating assignments and have Mom print those out. The stress got to me today--I was in a really foul mood earlier and feeling WAY overwhelmed. I guess the more I get done, the better I will feel. I will just be SO glad when the wedding day gets here and all of this preparation is behind me. Mr. is at the mall buying the gifts for the boys finally. I really feel like a nap is in order. Hope you have time to take one, too. Saturdays are great napping days, but not quite as good as Sundays!
Thursday, April 10, 2008
My baking talents have no end
Thankful Thursday

I was trying to get all fancy with the pink flower props! I know I have a photographer in me--I just need to let her out!
Wednesday, April 9, 2008
As promised...

This one is for the door leading from the garage to the kitchen. A lot of dirt gets tracked through here so we needed something.
You can tell from the tag still on it that I haven't decided 100% to keep it. I'm thinking I may leave it on there and go for the Minnie Pearl look for rugs. Whaddya think?
Whacky Wednesday
Today I FINALLY get my hair cut. If you could see how I've been going around in public--to work no less--you'd be embarrassed for me. Not after today, though.
We had the meeting with the DJ last night. He's the same one who did my 40th birthday party. Whoops, did I just post my age for all the world to see? Oh, who gives a rip. It is what it is and I yam what I yam (Popeye for those who don't know). Anyway...I'm excited about our entrance song and just the night in general. As different details fall into place, I get excited about each one.
For your viewing pleasure, more photos of new purchases. In case you think I am spending my money like a wild woman, these purchases were made with gifts cards I received either from my shower or for my birthday. I love gift cards--I get my shopping fix, but I don't spend any money!
Well, you'll have to check back for the pictures. My battery on my camera is dead and won't let me take any pictures or post them.
Tuesday, April 8, 2008
Turkey Tuesday
Yesterday the blog was all out of whack on the spacing. I couldn't make it do the paragraph breaks so don't think it was me typing that way. I guess that's technology for ya!
We had the meeting with the pastor yesterday. For those of you I haven't told, he is an Indian minister, meaning he's literally from India, a Christian minister, though. We saw him do a Sunday service and he's very nice and funny, but he has an accent so he's a little hard to understand. I'm kinda worried about that, esp. since my mom and aunt are hard of hearing. They may have to watch the video a few times to know what is being said. Since our last minister gave us the shaft at the last minute (leaving her position after we had already done all of the pre-wedding counseling, etc. with her), this was our only option. I am trying to believe that everything happens for a reason and this pastor, Simon, is the one who was meant to do our wedding. The meeting yesterday was kinda quick and he is supposed to email the ceremony to us for us to look over. I gave him some of the stack of ideas I've accumulated. I'd like for our vows to be unique and meaningful to us. Like he said, though, no one, probably not even us, will remember what was said!
Tonight we meet with the DJ. I still haven't started working on programs--my mom sent me something she put together and this may be the project I let her do on her own. It would be nice to just turn something over to someone and have them just do it. I also still have to buy ribbon for the vases for the centerpieces. The seating cards need printed as well as the seating chart finished. For those of you who are coming to the wedding who read this, please don't bitch about where we seat you. I did my best! I figure you'll only be eating at the table. The rest of the time you will be dancing or talking to other people. You can't imagine how difficult it is to put people at a table. We weren't going to do a seating chart, but the wedding coordinator suggested it's really the easiest way to utilize all of the tables efficiently. True, but still a pain in the ass!

Just thought I'd put a random picture of something in here--I was getting too wordy--and like I said before, the 3rd grader in me likes pictures! This is Miss Daisy with all of her toys around her--part of them. It cracks me up how she drags them all out since we've lived here. She hardly ever did that at home, but she does it almost every day here!
Monday, April 7, 2008
19 days and counting...
Yes, it's 19 days from today that I will be a Mrs. and Mr. will be a married Mr. I really can't believe it's so close. I guess every day I will probably think that since it's getting closer and closer and closer.



Saturday, April 5, 2008
Yay for makeup!

Pretty professional looking, huh?
I've decided that I have a very short attention span and don't like reading stuff without pictures. I feel like a 3rd grader, but that's the truth. Once I get my computer to Mr's house for good, I can post more pictures, but right now, I can only post them when I'm at my house.
I decided to take a picture of some of the gifts we've gotten so far sitting on the counter. I had to take out the old coffeemaker since we haven't started using the new one yet. But here is the mixer, knives and canister sets that we've received.
I'm at my house today because someone is coming to look at it from 1 to 2 and also, the open house is tomorrow. I need good thoughts and prayers because I have big hopes of closing on this sucker the week after the wedding. That would be perfect timing. I better scoot so I can get out of here before they get here. Have a great weekend!Friday, April 4, 2008
Very productive day
We got another wonderful wedding gift sent to us yesterday--a stand mixer that also doubles as a hand mixer. I am SO excited to use it and have been going through recipes today to see what I'm going to make. My sisterfriend Bean sent it to us. Thanks, girl!
Tomorrow is my 2nd attempt at my 2nd makeup trial! I am going come hell or high water! We also have an open house at my house on Sunday from 12 to 2. Keep your fingers crossed for us to sell it. We are going to move the rest of the stuff, hopefully next week. I'd like to get as much settled as possible before the wedding. It's going to be pretty crazy around here soon!
I forgot to update you on the house hunt the other night. There were 2 houses that we all really liked but one has a major yard problem that doesn't seem to be easily fixed and the other sits right on a main road. They are both so cute--it's a shame that they each have issues. I told the realtor why does everything have to have a huge 'but'? "I love everything, but..." This house is so cute except for ...." It was the same way with planning different things for the wedding--"I love this dress, but the train sucks" "I love this invitation, but it's too expensive" On and on and on. I guess the life lesson is you can't have everything you want and everything doesn't have to be perfect. At least that's what I think the lesson is.
Wednesday, April 2, 2008
The first Wednesday of the month

It has actual powder puffs on the little shoes and actual bows on the powder puff. Too cute, but I don't think male child thinks a lot of it.
Here's a picture of the downstairs bathroom, a.k.a. the fun bathroom. I've always wanted a bathroom where I could decorate it kinda silly but cute. Since flip flops are a favorite of mine, that's what I went with.

In case you're thinking I am really going to be a horrible stepmom, terrorizing my step-male child with all of these girlie things, I did hold back putting down the flip flop rug. I thought that might be a little too much for him at this point!Tuesday, April 1, 2008
April Fool's Day
We got a wedding present yesterday--our Henckel (spelling probably not right) knife set. There is also supposed to be a pair of kitchen shears, but they are coming separately--don't know why. It was from Gary and Sharyn who won't be able to make it to the wedding. I hate that because they are so much fun. It was so thoughtful of them to send a gift anyway. I noticed they bought it on our 1 month, post anniversary which was cool, too!
Mr. and I discussed going to get our marriage license today. I think it would be funny to have April 1st as the date on it. I don't know if we will or not. The male child has appointments scheduled to look at houses today so that starts at 5.
I was going to take pics of the new bathroom stuff I've put up and our new bed linens, but my stupid camera's battery has died and of course, the charger is at my house. Stay tuned for those pics maybe later today or tomorrow.

